Monday, March 31, 2008

Lessons on Life







Was clearing my emails as my Inbox has been prompting full for so many days!!!

Uncle John sent me this & I thought it's good to blog it :)


Lessons on Life 生命的功

There was a man who had four sons.
He wanted his sons to learn not to judge things too quickly.
So he sent them each on a quest, in turn,
to go and look at a pear tree that was a great distance away.
有一個人,他有四個兒子。
他希望他的兒子能夠學會不要太快對事情下結論,
所以,他依次給他四個孩子一個問題,
要他們分別出去遠方看一顆桃子樹。

The first son went in the winter, the second in the spring,
the third in summer, and the youngest son in t he fall.
大兒子在冬天前往,二兒子在春天,
三兒子在夏天,小兒子則是在秋 天前往。

When they had all gone and come back,
he called them together to describe what they had seen.
The first son said that the tree was ugly, bent, and twisted.
當他們都前去也都返家之後,
他把他們一起叫到跟前形容他們所看到的情景,
大兒子說那棵數很醜、枯槁、扭曲。

The second son said no it was covered with green buds
and full of promise.
二兒子則說,不是這樣子,
這棵樹被青青的嫩芽所覆蓋,充滿了盼望。

The third son disagreed; he said it was laden with blossoms
that smelled so sweet and looked so beautiful, it was the most graceful thing he had ever seen.
三兒子不同意,他說樹上花朵綻放、充滿香氣,
看起來十分美麗,這美景事他從來不曾見到過的。

The last son disagreed with all of them;
he said it was ripe and drooping with fruit,
full of life and fulfillment.
小兒子不同意他們三人的說法。
他說樹上結滿了果子、累累下垂。
充滿了生命果子與豐收。

The man then ex plained to his sons that they were all right,
because they had each seen but only one season in the tree's life.
這個人就對他四個兒子說:你們都是正確的。
因為你們四個人是在這棵樹的四個不同季節前往,
並且只看到其中一個季節的風景。

He told them that you cannot judge a tree, or a person,
by only one season, and that the essence of who
they are and the pleasure, joy, and love that come from
that life can only be measured at the end,
when all the seasons are up.
他告訴兒子們不可用一個季節的風景來評斷一棵樹或是一個人,
關於構成一個人是怎樣的一個人的要件,還有一個人生命的
歡愉、喜樂、愛,只能在他生命的盡頭時候來做衡量。

If you give up when it's winter,
you will miss the promise of your spring,
the beauty of your summer, fulfillment of your fall.
當你在冬天時候就放棄,
你就會錯過你生命春天的盼望、夏天的美麗、秋天的收成。

Don't let the pain of one season destroy the joy of all the rest.
不要讓一個季節的痛苦毀掉其他季節的喜樂。

Don't judge life by one difficult season.
Persevere through the difficult patches and better times
are sure to come some time or later.
不要因為一個痛苦的季節就對人生下結論,
持守忍耐度過這段艱難,美好的日子將在不久之後來到。

Simplicity

There is this family...whom sitz along Somerset MRT without fail every mon to sat. The father & son works together mending the broken sole of my heels, while the wife was making keychains outta the leftover leather piece.

As I sat along the busy lane where many Singaporeans rushed by to reach the MRT, lies the above scene. It's kinda heartwarming & reminded me of a song which I like (especially the chorus)...

张栋梁-其实幸福很简单

晚风吹地上有多美
蓝的视线忽然变得好轻微
你说这是三月的词汇
槐花香正随着夜色飞
很在乎月光多醒目
忘记有谁会在灯火澜珊处
千百回用尽力气去追
原来你早已用爱将我包围
以为最终幸福世上结局本最遥远
却在不经意之间它早已如此绚烂

其实幸福很简单就像你在我身边
静静看着你的脸也许了个心愿
温暖留在我心间
其实幸福很简单平安快乐到永远
轻轻靠着你的肩感受这温暖
不需要任何诺言
这就是快乐也是最平凡

每一刻都由你值得去挥霍
我不要你承诺你的所有
只要我们都记得
同一个幸福片段
其实幸福就是这么的简单

其实幸福很简单就像你在我身边
静静看着你的脸也许了个心愿
温暖留在我心间
其实幸福很简单平安快乐到永远
轻轻靠着你的肩感受这温暖
不需要任何诺言
这就是快乐也是最平凡

Sunday, March 30, 2008

Similarities.

I'm afraid.

Friday, March 28, 2008

Everything happens for a good reason

I’m glad that I had waited and made the decision to move to this department when the opportunity came. Else I’ll probably be working overseas by now or somewhere else learning how to walk/climbing again.

Latest news was that ‘ladybird’ had resigned. My previous department will be passed back to another department whom is already exploring ‘offshoring’ of the work. My previous supervisor promised a promotion & opportunity to work overseas when I asked for a transfer last year... But after thinking through, I decided not to take up the offer. It's a loss in $$ actually, but somehow I gained back too!!

If not for the move, I probably would not have met YOU :)

Wednesday, March 26, 2008

Singapore vs Lebanon

It's been years since I stepped into National Stadium...but I went there with KC to watch Singapore vs Lebanon's match today. quite a experience I would say...as I've never enjoyed much before being there & I think it has also been 2 years since I last wore a red top!!

Being the very 'smiley & not camera shy me', we finally got to take picz together (w/o hiding) even though I know YOU don't really like it. Thanks Darling!!! Luv ya!!! :MUACKS:

Tuesday, March 18, 2008

Argh!

It could probably be the weather; it really sucks to fall ill this week. My nose is still super block as I type...and it feels terrible as I have to rush for my report before my trip which I had waited for 5 mths?

On the other hand, I feel like staying in SG cos I know I'll be missing YOU! :(

Sunday, March 16, 2008

Secret

And so the secret was being said/revealed yesterday...

I would have just kept it in me but I guess it ain't as easy har? *tsk tsk*

Even so if I had really told you the other day, it's kinda weird anyway...

So I hope this was a pleasant surprise for YOU =)

Monday, March 10, 2008

Woke up today in a mess...

*I think*

I always wake up on time, bathe, change, doll abit & leave house on the dot for work. Everything calculated to be almost exact...so I could catch a little more sleep =x

But today...was supposedly to wash my face, but I went to brush my teeth 1st...supposedly to comb my hair but I went to do other things…

Later I realised that’s because I’m thinking of YOU!!!

I never like someone this way before...and the things I do recently... *unbelievable* that it's me...which is so opposite from my principles =x

I think I’ve fallen...fallen in love with YOU! =)

Sunday, March 09, 2008

*SMILE* sMile smile smile smile!!!

That's what I feel like doing now...

Suddenly felt a little wanting to tear yday, cos I thought on the times which we were being played by fate & tossed around for so long!

At least, I know I have YOU now! =)

Tuesday, March 04, 2008

Juno

watched Juno the other day & I kinda like the following quote...

"The best thing you can do is find a person who loves you for exactly what you are. Good mood, bad mood, ugly, pretty, handsome, what have you, the right person will still think the sun shines out your ass. That's the kind of person that's worth sticking with."

Saturday, March 01, 2008

February has just passed

1. A new Rat year started quiet...

2. A month of new friends
Got to know a great bunch whom left me spending weekends and late nights with.
People whom know me well, will know that I usually don't spend my time with idiotic people :)

3. A month of emo times
Not too bad after all, I think it will end soon. Left me a little mentally exhausted, but too hell with all the nonsensical thingys.

4. YOU
I'm glad you have been blessed by friends in a way or another. At least, my wish did came true a little... And I seriously hope it will stay that way & the rest of my months will have YOU inside too :)