Sunday, June 29, 2008

8 Law of Habitual Thoughts

Went for Service this morning & Pastor Rony spoke on feelings & thoughts & said, "Your brain is a powerful tool". He then go about speaking on the 8 Law of Habitual Thoughts as listed below.

8 Law of Habitual Thoughts
1) You have the power to choose what to think regularly.
2) What you constantly think will become real & relevant to you.
3) Your habitual thoughts will becoming the driving force of your life.
4) You will eventually become what you habitually think.
5) You will eventually put your habitual thoughts into actions.
6) Your translated action repeated will eventually become a habit.
7) Your driving thoughts and habit will reinforce each other.
8) You can only change that pattern of living by first changing your thoughts.

How true & powerful these words are. Praise the Lord, for guiding me once again. =)

Happy 27th Birthday! =)

The greatest gift I have received, is God's Love.

The greatest gift I have gotten for myself, is The Bible.

Thursday, June 26, 2008

My Idle Mode Starts

So I went to do a personality type quiz - http://www.ipersonic.com/test.html! And the results is kinda accurate for me...


Social Realist (SR)

Social Realists are popular persons full of energy. They are reliable, well organized and helpful. Traditional values are important to them. Founding a family also plays a central role in their life. Social Realists have a marked social streak. They are always ready to listen to the worries and problems of others and spare no effort when they are asked for help. With empathy and understanding, they can sense what other people need. Social Realists are always willing to highly regard the strong points of the other person and to excuse that person’s weaknesses. They are the most sociable of all personality types. Social contacts are very important to them.

Social Realists find it very difficult to cope with conflicts and criticism - harmony is their elixir of life. Acknowledgement and esteem are very important to this type. Differentiation on the other hand is not necessarily one of their strong points. At work and in partnerships, they are loyal, committed and always there when needed. They find it easy to make friends due to their open, warm manner and they have a large circle of friends.

In love, they are faithful and attentive and care for their partners with a great deal of imagination and sensitivity. Social Realists show their feelings openly and honestly. Should a relationship break up, they tend to blame themselves. That is why they find it very difficult to end a partnership even if it has not fulfilled their requirements for some time.

Social Realists are more conservative types. They have a set system of values and rules which is orientated to the prevailing traditions. They prefer clear, structured surroundings and work processes; they find too much change und unrest unpleasant. Their strong points are carefulness and reliability and not so much flexibility and spontaneity. Social Realists are open-minded towards anything new only to a limited extent. But, should one be looking for someone to fulfil a task reliably and exactly, they are the right persons.

Wednesday, June 25, 2008

Sleepless Night

Went for a double date last evening and watched the movie 'The Happening' directed by M. Night Shyamalan.

It was just a casual dinner meet up but later our partners joined us & we decided to go for movies.

I sorta recall why I do not like to use my brains after night falls as this will lead me to a sleepless night due to extended usage of the brain. Haha! It's similar to cycling, when you pedal hard and stop pedaling after awhile, the wheels will still run before you need to start again. I guess my brains work this way as well. =X

Just like babies & young kids..when they are over-excited into the night, they tend not to sleep. It's the same logic for me! Of cos, I would be a big baby for now. But yeah, it's still happening to me. =)

Now why do I keep talking about getting over-excited & on my brains, that's because of M. Night Shyamalan! I did not realized that this show was directed & written by him but I do remember telling myself in the past that his shows does leave you thinking & hyped up cos of the plot/scenes. And so it's around 10.30pm when we watched the movie with the gr0ss and terrifying scenes of people trying various ways of killing themselves.

The strange thing is that I was not even thinking of the show when I was in bed, but yeah, I had a sleepless night. =X

Sunday, June 22, 2008

Big Thank You

I wanna say a Big Thank You to JL, SM, MM, JJ, LGF, ATN, XH & ED for your presence at dinner last night, the gift card, the cake and most importantly, all your thoughts. =)

Cannot say out yday cos I will cry one, especially when all of you sang the birthday song.

Ya ya, Cancerian are emotional people but there is never a day when I felt being a one isn't good. =)

Wednesday, June 18, 2008

Lost & Found

I thought I have lost it, else I must have dump it during the cleaning of my room. But today, I found it back where I have left it! The original spot!

This seem odd as the last time I search for it, it wasn't there! Hah!

Given to me by Esther in 1994, I wondered what had kept me keeping it for 14 years.

It's a sign...The sign which I had been asking for. Thank You My Lord!

Tuesday, June 17, 2008

My work

If you had been a follower of my lousy writings since the start of this blog. You might have noticed that I previously treat this blog for me to vent my anger/whinings/complains in regards to work.

But for now, this has tone down quite a lot ever since I have transferred department as of late 2007.

Just some updates, I am still with SH but currently in the another dept where my busy period is only during 8th - 20th of the month. And during this period, I just needa complete my reports and the rest of the days I would somehow be on idling mode. The only bad thingy is that, I have to face the 'queen & highness' whom almost all dislike.

This was maybe a very late decision but a chance so slim which came by, just when I was on the verge of resigning. But now, I am really enjoying the 'less stress & responsibilities' with having more time & flexibility, which in return gave me the chance to know more friends and to be together with Darling. =)

Now I know that I would want to spend time to know and understanding him as much as I can. But recently, Darling had clinched various projects which have kept him very busy. I just wish that there could be something which I can do for him; but on IT/technical stuffs? I think I am an idiot on this. (Well, I know how to format my pc la, not like some whom totally have zero knowledge on it).

Anyway, just for sharing.

Life is an ECHO. What you send out, you get back.
What you give, you receive. When you bring out the best in others, you bring out the best in yourself.

The above quote is written on one of my client's email signature.

Monday, June 16, 2008

My say...

When you keep thinking/doing those things you cannot control, you'll miss out on the little things which you actually can do.

I need to address on my above sayings which I use very often recently. Cos I feel that this can be applied to many people out there. I hope that after you have read the following & its examples. You can learn & do something (hopefully for the better) on your decision making.

DO NOT THINK of the aftermath, cos that is that is something which you usually cannot control. Do think on your actions & words, what you do, what you say, will it hurt someone, will it make someone happier, what is the impact you want on them? What is the impact you want on yourself? Always remember what you say/do reflects on yourself & the people around you.

You asked if one day I get to know someone better than you are, will you choose to break up. My answer is no, unless you do not love me anymore and had given up on our relationship, else I will not let go. This is because the future is something I cannot control, right now, I want YOU. Anyway, please do not keep thinking on the ‘what if one day that someone better might come along’, but please do something about it so that, that one day will never ever come.

To all the criminals out there, I also do wish that all of you will think twice before doing any crime. Whether it is to rape/molest/robbery/murder/fly a plane into some buildings, have you ever thought of the consequences? Well, the very first thing would be you have your own conscience to answer. You know you will be punished, either being jailed, hanged or even death. You know your reputation is at stake since once you have criminal record it will be hard for you to find work anymore. You know you gonna hurt those whom really love you. Then do not do it, don’t let it happen, by not doing crimes, that’s something you can control then you don’t have to think of the aftermath!

As for C.E., I think it looks pretty obvious that I'm go against him all the time these days. To those whom do not know what had happened in the past, it would be that I am really against him or that I dislike him just like anybody does. BUT the main reason why I kept shooting him is because he is just an irritant without using his brains. What he says/do doesn't reflect that he is sincere in really wanting us back as friends. Seriously, If you really want us to accept you back, you better stop whining and do something about it. Reflect on yourself, kid.

As for BQT: Darling use to always say he has some liking for me thus being so emotional. But I do not want to know whether he likes me or not. I am already attached, and the thingy which he can control is his emotions. Same goes for those other people whom are very nice to me. I really appreciate it but I already found someone whom I really like. And if you really want happiness for me, please give me your blessings instead.

As for JL: I know I’m so gonna lose this friend if I don’t do anything about it. She was frustrated with me for lying and not listening to her. I don’t blame her, the fault lies in me cos I lied to her and because I never did tell her on what I want, what I believe and what was ‘the very important thingy’ which I need to do, she wouldn’t know my intentions. But I’m glad, she is willing to give me time to solve my own things. And I wanna say a big thank you to you.

Similarly for myself, I know I’m so gonna lose this relationship if I keep thinking negatively on it. And if I don’t do something, I will lose someone whom is important to me. So heck care the right time right place when I need to talk to you, even if you have to put me in a tank full of pigeons, I still will talk to you and do something about it, cos this relationship is what I really want. (Yeah I am afraid & hate pigeons).

Oh ya, I have taken about an hour and only eaten half of my breakfast to write the above. If I don't start work now, I'm so gonna mess up my work and I won't be able to go back on time to have dinner with you!~

So yea, I need to do work now already. Hah! Whoever read this, please do take some time to think over the above. There are so many examples which I can quote. But I hope you get the gist of what I want to say. Many might say why think so much? All of us are given only one brain, if we don’t make use of this powerful tool, who else will?

BUT THEN AGAIN, please do not think/do of those things which you cannot control, cos you'll miss out on the little things which you actually can do. =)

Sunday, June 15, 2008

Greetings from Seoul

Was chatting with Tony today while he is working in Seoul and myself in SG office. Hah! We catch up a little on each other's life and he talked on his relationship/marriage of 15 years. As usual, I like to ask what the one thing that makes relationship works; he said ‘compromise with other’.

Today I learnt another thingy & found another June baby.

He says:
By trying hard … effort = 100%, returns 50%, sometimes dun try - returns 40%... ROE is higher without trying! So let nature take its course. You will start to learn when you are my age.

Happy Birthday in advance to you. June babies rocks! =)

Saturday, June 14, 2008

Simplicity & Happiness

If only life is not so complicated, how nice would that be? That’s what people usually say, but I think it’s more on how simple you want your life to be!

I was watching ‘The Hospital’ aka 白色巨塔 and realized you actually have to watch Taiwan dramas with a very open mind and to be positive. There are so many scenarios in the show which I can relate to myself, but if I really do so, then my life would just be as sad as the show.

Simple & Happy. That’s how I want my life to be – nothing too thick in my wallet, nothing too fanciful in my wardrobe and definitely not with a high profile status. The only thing I want is to be happy the way I am and my love ones to share my happiness and to stay as happy as I do. And that’s what I’ll pray for Darling everyday too. =)

Friday, June 13, 2008

Summary of June

(Huh? Right in the middle of the month? Hah!)

Time past so fast, and it's been almost a week since we came back. I'm soOooo missing the times spent in TP, that I had not recover from the moods since I came back to work. Seriously, I didn't felt like coming back to SG especially on the last few days! And for my work tis week, it's just totally unproductive! Looks like I probably needa buck up a little & this weekend's mornings will be spent in office to do work! =(

Time past so fast, and it's been a month since I did my Epilasik. Everything is okie for now, except my vision not being sharp enough. The only thingy was I wasted some $$$ on purchasing few bottles of eyedrops which I don't need anymore. And the next consultation will be on the 20th of June where my eyesight will be assessed again.

The following two weeks will also be slightly busy for me, as my friends are already bugging me out for some catch up session & yeah, it's my month! June babies rox! I can't help hoping the day will come faster, budden again, if that day comes sooner, it means my age is increasing! Ahh! How contradicting life can be.

Anyway, Darling had been very busy with work, hopefully things will run smoothly for him and we will be able to spend time together during then & aso fulfilling the bet we had made with each other. The 666 bet. =)

Wednesday, June 11, 2008

Some of the food we ate

Don't drool ah!! =P

Basically their food taste similar to ours in SG but I would say they are very creative in serving out their food. The ingredients are just normal stuffs but they can come out with lotsa designs/patterns/methods in order to attract our attention!


Hong Shao Niu Rou Mian! Only NT69, but taste only soso~~



Their prata! Chong You Bing!!! Very nice especially with egg, bacon & cheese!~~~


Yummy pastry with chilled chocolate fillings! Sweet!~~


Guan Cai Ban! A deep fried thick toast, cut in the middle with a mixture of everything~~!



Ru Rou Fan, Kangkong, Fishball Soup & Fried Oyster!


Some Beef Rice Thingy~~


San Xiong Mei's MAngo ICE @ XMD!!! Darling likes it with lotsa brown sugar syrup!!!!


Guess wats inside? EscargO!!! We had 3 portions of this ah~~~


Roasted Chicken!~



Ding Tai Fung! We both agreed that SG's better!

Tuesday, June 10, 2008

Sorry to JL

I didn't realized that becos of 1 lie, I had to use more to cover it. But why wouldn't you tell me or talk to me about it??? I kept apologizing to you for the wrong things and in return, making you more angry! If you don't tell me directly, how would I have know what wrong I have done?

For this, I'm really sorry, I should not have lied to you or to any friends at all. This is something which I have done wrong and I shall not say or tell you not to be angry with me again. But I would still seek forgiveness from you cos I do really treasure this friendship & I promise not to lie about anything again.

I know you are also frustrated that I kept asking where all of you are going but in the end, its either I come very late else I don't show up at all. But please do know that I really wanna join you people but there's something more important which I had to do. Something was wrong and I need to get it solve first. And in order to solve this, I need time.

I know that friendship is never a transaction, but can I bet on our friendship by buying time from you?


Sorry to all.
I didn't listen cos I still believe in what I am doing. I appreciate all your concerns but this is what I want & wouldn't let go.

And one thing which I have to disagree with you all is, "What counts in making a R/S is not so much how compatible you are, but how you deal with incompatibility."

Please believe in me and what I do. You know I could just be frustrated over why you guys are doubting over what I do, but I won't. I hope this is something which you all can learn about me and on friendship.


Sorry to me.
I have not taken care of myself. And to love someone, I have to love myself first.

I had been complaining or rather upset that we don't communicate and I feel helpless trying to know who you are. But I came to realised, there was so much to learn about the both of us when we are together. Every single person has their own way of communicating, and this is something which I have to learn & understand on.

Monday, June 09, 2008

I'm back in SG!

For some reasons, I know I have made some friends to be angry with me or rather upset with me for not telling where I have really went for the past one week AND for not listening to what had been advised/said to me.

What I can only only say is that I have my reasons for not telling AND please let me have this 50% chance cos its really important & meant alot to me!!! Cos if I don't try, I will never know...And I don't want things to be just faded through time. Call this being persistent, or call me stubborn. I just hope that you will/can understand...

Thursday, June 05, 2008

I know what I want & I will fight for it

Try = 50% Win & 50% Lose.
Not Trying = 100% Lose.

This 50% is important to me, so I want to take this chance. Even if everything fails, I know I have tried...

Sunday, June 01, 2008

Positive & Negative

Do you feel that that you will think more positively when you talk/be with someone positive than a negative person?

Personally, I would say yes, I tend to think more positively when I talk/be with someone positive. But even if I talk/be with someone negative, I will try to learn from that someone to become positive & hopefully he/she will feel my positive ions as well. Even though, sometimes after talking to that person you will get the same answers as what you already have thought of. Perhaps I just want to be sure of what I am doing.

I met up with TWL for dinner yday at Down Town East and based on the fact that I do not wan to eat instant noodles consecutively for two weekends.

This place has changed so much with many new facilities which probably tempt many people to visit the place since its opening. But how long would it last? I wondered...

TWL & I talked on things which made me learn, but I hope I would have the chance to put them in good use. We also talked on the perspective of people, on how they can differ between various people.

I needed some quiet time & landed in such a crowded place... But I would say that I had a good chat with TWL & felt so much better in a way or another.

Dang. I wanted so much to sing too but they didn't allow any one person singing today which I can understand that the 1 charge of mine, they probably can get 5 charges to a room.