Recently, the heavily debated topic in TGOP is on 'Abortion or Adoption', this came after one of our forum mates got pregnant and the guy being not responsible, leaving her to decide on what to do.
After thinking through, I would say that I belong to the pro-choice category & agree that she should do abortion.
Quoted from my Darling, "pro-choice does not mean pro-abortion. Perhaps it is a stand that tend to favor the abortion decision but where the parents feel they are ready despite the unplanned nature, where they do want the child, then I fully support their decision to keep it."
In her situation now, a young pretty doctor to be, a family whom favors the ever so slacking son, and with a mentality from asking on "why the jerk is still doing this to her". I really think that she should do abortion instead of adoption. Anyway, this is a decision she has to make and I hope it's not another stupid thing women does for love.
I have to admit that I'm also one of those women & one example would be from the second decision I've made on May 14th. I wouldn't say its a a stupid thing that I did for love, but I'm sure many scold me if they knew. You may ask if this is a choice of mine or just a gamble? I can't really answer you. But I do wish it wouldn't turn out to be the latter...
Saturday, May 31, 2008
Friday, May 30, 2008
It’s the usual must go ‘Happenings’
‘Happenings’ is an event which my entire department have to attend every month and the HOD will talk on sales update of the various sector or would I just say, in simple, it’s a communication session.
Today, she talked about ‘Overcoming Obstacles’ and also mentioned a quote which Manfu had previously told me before which is ‘Things happens for a good reason’. Immediately, I sms Manfu and started chatting with him instead of listening to the usual sales/marketing updates.
There were some issues which we sms-ed about, and Manfu came over to my desk to talk to me an hour ago. Of all things, he said something which made me cry. Some words so accurately describe my feelings.
It could be my mind which is weak from being sick again or the caused of all the drugs which I'm taking. I dunno. Well, do not worry cos I’m alright.
Today, she talked about ‘Overcoming Obstacles’ and also mentioned a quote which Manfu had previously told me before which is ‘Things happens for a good reason’. Immediately, I sms Manfu and started chatting with him instead of listening to the usual sales/marketing updates.
There were some issues which we sms-ed about, and Manfu came over to my desk to talk to me an hour ago. Of all things, he said something which made me cry. Some words so accurately describe my feelings.
It could be my mind which is weak from being sick again or the caused of all the drugs which I'm taking. I dunno. Well, do not worry cos I’m alright.
Thursday, May 29, 2008
Fear...
My mind wandered too much today after reading something few days back & after watching a show on the bus last night. Both an almost similar situation.
Is this just a coincidence? Is this a type of fear? Whether it's a yes or no, I must overcome it.
But one thing I must remind myself is on what I personally had said before...which is, “When you keep thinking of those things you cannot control, you'll miss out on the little things which you actually can do."
Note: The above mentioned situation is not about the 'heavily debated topic' among TGOP now on "Abortion or Adoption."
Is this just a coincidence? Is this a type of fear? Whether it's a yes or no, I must overcome it.
But one thing I must remind myself is on what I personally had said before...which is, “When you keep thinking of those things you cannot control, you'll miss out on the little things which you actually can do."
Note: The above mentioned situation is not about the 'heavily debated topic' among TGOP now on "Abortion or Adoption."
Wednesday, May 28, 2008
Complains!
I think the following complain comes only from me (that's among my own friends of cos).
I was trying on some dresses just now and there is this dress which I like it so much but I couldn't buy it cos my pair of fr0nts are too big. This has always been the case even when I was much slimmer, and there are some clothes which I couldn't fit into. Now wait, I should be contented with what I have, there are many whom wants it but have to use padded bras to enhance, so in a way, I had saved $$$ on buying those type of lingerie. Ahh! *Dilemma* You just can't get the best of all worlds!~ =X
Anyway, to compensate that I couldn't buy that dress, I went GAP which is also having sales & bought myself a nice green tube top! 30% + 10% Discount, what more do you want! =)
Maybe if I'm free tonight, I will take a picture of it! Cheers!
I was trying on some dresses just now and there is this dress which I like it so much but I couldn't buy it cos my pair of fr0nts are too big. This has always been the case even when I was much slimmer, and there are some clothes which I couldn't fit into. Now wait, I should be contented with what I have, there are many whom wants it but have to use padded bras to enhance, so in a way, I had saved $$$ on buying those type of lingerie. Ahh! *Dilemma* You just can't get the best of all worlds!~ =X
Anyway, to compensate that I couldn't buy that dress, I went GAP which is also having sales & bought myself a nice green tube top! 30% + 10% Discount, what more do you want! =)
Maybe if I'm free tonight, I will take a picture of it! Cheers!
My EpiLasik Op on 15th May 2008
Now now, I know I have not blog on my EpiLasik Opz & there are many people whom are curious about it. Cos it’s been a week plus, pls let me try my best in recalling on how the whole thingy went about.
It was a fast move on my side. Was just talking about it with some friends & within a few days I have done the opz. Same goes to my parents; I have asked for their approval, the very next day I did it! =X
After taking some pills (can’t remember what it is), I sat on the sofa waiting for my turn; I was trying to feel my pulse to see if I was nervous. Maybe it was because of the pills and that Darling was there, my pulse seemed fine. Well, I wasn’t really afraid about it, but I was glad Darling was with me =)
As expected, it was a long wait before my turn or rather I was the last on the list for the opz that day.
The preparation before the opz was quite a calm one - when I walked into the room, I was greeted by the assistant whom helped me with the robes and disinfection of the eye area. The last I saw with my spectacles was a cross on the wall and this made me felt like praying. I was then asked to sit on another sofa and she played some music... Dr Julian Theng then came out to greet me as well and ask on how I was feeling and cracked some jokes with me before leading me to the surgery room.
On the surgery bed, my eyebrows were then being taped & eyelids being clipped to prevent blinking. However, one of the drops which felt super cold after contacting my eye forced me wanting to blink! The actual opz was more superb, you just have to look at the spaceship and to focus on the green & red lights. The whole process was so fast, you didn't even know you have already gone through it. (Don't mind me, I hate to recall on the machine names. I'll just use similar items/objects to describe it. =P)
The night after the op, I kept tearing, there was no pain, but once I open my eyes, tears just flowed! This frightened me a little as one of my eye seemed to have triple lids and the other being extremely small!
Second day, I was ultra sensitive to light and I just want to hide in a dark corner. *Totally vampired* Worst of all, my attempt to take public transport; though a successful one but I almost got hit by car while crossing the road! =X
Third day onwards, I was already out playing. =D
Not forgetting I have to keep dripping eyedrops (4 types!) every 3 hours and the tear drops as and when I feel dryness in my eye. I sorta got 'scolded' by Darling for rubbing my eyes with my hands & not putting the drops when necessary. Oh ya, the sunglasses too, but I really felt it was rude to wear it while eating with the rest. =(
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Don't worry, I now clean my hands before I put my drops, under bright sunlight, I will wear the sunglasses. I've brought enough tissue paper out to wipe my eyes okie? =)
As of today, my vision is still a little blurry, especially when I'm in office, I simply have to sit very close to my monitor screen. Weird isn't it? Heh! But I know it's improving! Yday, after I had dripped one of the eyedropz, for almost 10 secs, the vision became super sharp! And I love it! Haha! I'll just have to wait patiently for it to stabilize then I'll be able to enjoy.
Cheers! Everything is good! But I should have done this earlier in my life =)
P.S.: It's taking too long for me to finish this & I'm getting lazy. So don't mind me for the brief notes on the later part of this post. =D
It was a fast move on my side. Was just talking about it with some friends & within a few days I have done the opz. Same goes to my parents; I have asked for their approval, the very next day I did it! =X
After taking some pills (can’t remember what it is), I sat on the sofa waiting for my turn; I was trying to feel my pulse to see if I was nervous. Maybe it was because of the pills and that Darling was there, my pulse seemed fine. Well, I wasn’t really afraid about it, but I was glad Darling was with me =)
As expected, it was a long wait before my turn or rather I was the last on the list for the opz that day.
The preparation before the opz was quite a calm one - when I walked into the room, I was greeted by the assistant whom helped me with the robes and disinfection of the eye area. The last I saw with my spectacles was a cross on the wall and this made me felt like praying. I was then asked to sit on another sofa and she played some music... Dr Julian Theng then came out to greet me as well and ask on how I was feeling and cracked some jokes with me before leading me to the surgery room.
On the surgery bed, my eyebrows were then being taped & eyelids being clipped to prevent blinking. However, one of the drops which felt super cold after contacting my eye forced me wanting to blink! The actual opz was more superb, you just have to look at the spaceship and to focus on the green & red lights. The whole process was so fast, you didn't even know you have already gone through it. (Don't mind me, I hate to recall on the machine names. I'll just use similar items/objects to describe it. =P)
The night after the op, I kept tearing, there was no pain, but once I open my eyes, tears just flowed! This frightened me a little as one of my eye seemed to have triple lids and the other being extremely small!
Second day, I was ultra sensitive to light and I just want to hide in a dark corner. *Totally vampired* Worst of all, my attempt to take public transport; though a successful one but I almost got hit by car while crossing the road! =X
Third day onwards, I was already out playing. =D
Not forgetting I have to keep dripping eyedrops (4 types!) every 3 hours and the tear drops as and when I feel dryness in my eye. I sorta got 'scolded' by Darling for rubbing my eyes with my hands & not putting the drops when necessary. Oh ya, the sunglasses too, but I really felt it was rude to wear it while eating with the rest. =(
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Don't worry, I now clean my hands before I put my drops, under bright sunlight, I will wear the sunglasses. I've brought enough tissue paper out to wipe my eyes okie? =)
As of today, my vision is still a little blurry, especially when I'm in office, I simply have to sit very close to my monitor screen. Weird isn't it? Heh! But I know it's improving! Yday, after I had dripped one of the eyedropz, for almost 10 secs, the vision became super sharp! And I love it! Haha! I'll just have to wait patiently for it to stabilize then I'll be able to enjoy.
Cheers! Everything is good! But I should have done this earlier in my life =)
P.S.: It's taking too long for me to finish this & I'm getting lazy. So don't mind me for the brief notes on the later part of this post. =D
Tuesday, May 20, 2008
Bad Day? Mood Swings?
It all started waking up at 4am; I didn't manage to sleep back so my day started early. As I was on medical leave since last Friday due to my EpiLasik op, I wanted to go in office earlier to see what is the damage and the fact that I'm saving $$$, I took the first bus.
Just as what I had expected, my work desk was in a mess with lotsa new requests to be inputted for my may's report. I was already gonna submit my reports for the month, but with all these, I had to pend on it.
With the removal of my bandage lens during lunch, things got worst as my vision became ultra blurrish. I simply cannot do work or rather I did not have the mood to even continue.
I managed to survive till 5.30pm and met up with Aaron for a short discussion and he promised to come up with something on my request. Thanks to him, but I do not know whether it might work till I get there.
Since I was already in town, I continued with my search for my item & hoping I could eat dinner with Darling after his work. But all things crashed when my mom had to call, sorta screaming at me to be home cos she did not bring out her keys again. I did tell her that I won't be back so early, but she kept asking where I was & what time I'll be back in which I do not have an answer! Argh!!! The continuous sms-es and asking of the same questions later on was what that got me really pissed off. Taking a cab didn't really help either as there was a traffic jam.
I do not know why the sudden change of moods, but I was already tearing while on cab. I might have frightened the driver with my tears and bloody eyes. My whole journey was a quiet one and I was trying not to make any sniffing sound.
P.S.: Apologies, the come-back after so many days was an angry/sad one. I actually had some writings on papers already and because of my vision I have not type them out. And FYI, this post was done by increasing the font size to about Arial - 20. =X
Just as what I had expected, my work desk was in a mess with lotsa new requests to be inputted for my may's report. I was already gonna submit my reports for the month, but with all these, I had to pend on it.
With the removal of my bandage lens during lunch, things got worst as my vision became ultra blurrish. I simply cannot do work or rather I did not have the mood to even continue.
I managed to survive till 5.30pm and met up with Aaron for a short discussion and he promised to come up with something on my request. Thanks to him, but I do not know whether it might work till I get there.
Since I was already in town, I continued with my search for my item & hoping I could eat dinner with Darling after his work. But all things crashed when my mom had to call, sorta screaming at me to be home cos she did not bring out her keys again. I did tell her that I won't be back so early, but she kept asking where I was & what time I'll be back in which I do not have an answer! Argh!!! The continuous sms-es and asking of the same questions later on was what that got me really pissed off. Taking a cab didn't really help either as there was a traffic jam.
I do not know why the sudden change of moods, but I was already tearing while on cab. I might have frightened the driver with my tears and bloody eyes. My whole journey was a quiet one and I was trying not to make any sniffing sound.
P.S.: Apologies, the come-back after so many days was an angry/sad one. I actually had some writings on papers already and because of my vision I have not type them out. And FYI, this post was done by increasing the font size to about Arial - 20. =X
Wednesday, May 14, 2008
Two Decisions
I went for the pre-LASIK assessment yesterday & have decided that I will do Epi-Lasik. Gotten my approval from my parents (but I will still do it even if they disapprove), calculated on my budgets, spoke to my boss that I will be able to handle all work before ops. There seem to be nothing that I miss out?
I had hesitated too long since the day I was being introduced to it, which is like in the early 2000s. Back then, I wasn't financially stable as I was still a clubbing princess & that my close friends were discouraging me to do so (even when I type this).
So the question is why do it now?
- Be it permanent contact lens or disposable ones. I can never get a good fit or clear vision.
- Extreme discomfort/redness/dryness after wearing contact lens. I have to bring my spectacles almost all the time!
- Have to go diving with contact lens. Possible to get serious infection or lost of lens. Thus wastage of $$$ & possible not to spot on macro stuffz.
- I love my brown eyes. Do not deny, it's nice, combo-ed with my smile =D
By now, I have received lotsa well wishes from friends, but I was thinking, "What's so scarey about it?" I then thought of the things which really matters to me, and only two came in mind.
- The first thingy when I look at someone is their eyes.
- The warmest thingy I can feel is through someone's smile.
Both does involved one's sight isn't it? *Heh*
Oh well, if all of you kept saying I'm brave. Maybe I am...cos I've decided to do both eyes at the same time. Maybe I am not too...I have not lie on the ops bed. Maybe I would have shivered.
The only thingy which made me question myself was whether I'm able to take care for my love ones when they need me. But I will just hope & pray there won't be any implications after the ops.
As for the second decision, I can't really say much. I knew things were changing for me - I just wasn't sure if it was for the better. Nonetheless, I accepted this challenge and I'm sure GOD has a plan for all of us, we'll just have to wait patiently.
I had hesitated too long since the day I was being introduced to it, which is like in the early 2000s. Back then, I wasn't financially stable as I was still a clubbing princess & that my close friends were discouraging me to do so (even when I type this).
So the question is why do it now?
- Be it permanent contact lens or disposable ones. I can never get a good fit or clear vision.
- Extreme discomfort/redness/dryness after wearing contact lens. I have to bring my spectacles almost all the time!
- Have to go diving with contact lens. Possible to get serious infection or lost of lens. Thus wastage of $$$ & possible not to spot on macro stuffz.
- I love my brown eyes. Do not deny, it's nice, combo-ed with my smile =D
By now, I have received lotsa well wishes from friends, but I was thinking, "What's so scarey about it?" I then thought of the things which really matters to me, and only two came in mind.
- The first thingy when I look at someone is their eyes.
- The warmest thingy I can feel is through someone's smile.
Both does involved one's sight isn't it? *Heh*
Oh well, if all of you kept saying I'm brave. Maybe I am...cos I've decided to do both eyes at the same time. Maybe I am not too...I have not lie on the ops bed. Maybe I would have shivered.
The only thingy which made me question myself was whether I'm able to take care for my love ones when they need me. But I will just hope & pray there won't be any implications after the ops.
As for the second decision, I can't really say much. I knew things were changing for me - I just wasn't sure if it was for the better. Nonetheless, I accepted this challenge and I'm sure GOD has a plan for all of us, we'll just have to wait patiently.
Monday, May 12, 2008
Expectations. Changes.
I spent my Sunday doing house chores such as washing of clothes, repacked my dive gears, tidying my desk and ironing of clothes. As there were quite abit of ironing to do, and there’s nothing much shown on the SG’s channels, I re-watched Jolin’s concert again.
Listening to her, I began to sing along and was amazed I could actually remembered most of the lyrics. Yes, I love listening to her albums and proud to say that she was one of my idols.
I then recalled many people telling me that they prefer her previous image. But has anybody realized it was based on whose expectation or demands which caused her to change? Now it seemed that the change wasn’t what people really have expected har? Nonetheless, her efforts in improving herself should be commendable. For I know she has put in lotsa hard work to enhance herself, in terms of singing, dancing & of cos, her famous G-cup boobs.
The next big question would be: Have you ever sat down to think; have you done/said something to someone, just to meet up with your own expectations or have you been living in other people’s expectation and not of your own? If you have not, maybe you should just take 5minutes to really think about it now. Also, I find everything links to each other, you might wanna think on the changes which you need to make/adapt too; are you able to handle it?
To me, it’s always the famous saying, the least expectations you have, the lesser disappointment you’ll get. But this verse kinda contradictz har? Who doesn't have expectations? Well, at least I know...the expectations I have for myself. =)
Listening to her, I began to sing along and was amazed I could actually remembered most of the lyrics. Yes, I love listening to her albums and proud to say that she was one of my idols.
I then recalled many people telling me that they prefer her previous image. But has anybody realized it was based on whose expectation or demands which caused her to change? Now it seemed that the change wasn’t what people really have expected har? Nonetheless, her efforts in improving herself should be commendable. For I know she has put in lotsa hard work to enhance herself, in terms of singing, dancing & of cos, her famous G-cup boobs.
The next big question would be: Have you ever sat down to think; have you done/said something to someone, just to meet up with your own expectations or have you been living in other people’s expectation and not of your own? If you have not, maybe you should just take 5minutes to really think about it now. Also, I find everything links to each other, you might wanna think on the changes which you need to make/adapt too; are you able to handle it?
To me, it’s always the famous saying, the least expectations you have, the lesser disappointment you’ll get. But this verse kinda contradictz har? Who doesn't have expectations? Well, at least I know...the expectations I have for myself. =)
Sunday, May 11, 2008
I'm alright...
I think the recent medication which I had been taking for the past one week has been making me weird, pulling my moods down a little, so I sounded rather quiet har? Everybody kept saying I seemed weird? But seriously, it could most likely be the caused of the drugs that's making me less livelier?
To all those whom has been very questioning me; I would like to say to all...I really appreciate your concern and I'm really okay!
The cough is pissing the hell outta me as I can't get much sleep either. Furthermore, my busy period has started, so I'm rather occupied with work as well. I am also trying to push myself a little more in order to finish my work before the dateline.
It could also be the lack of family members at home? My Parents are holidaying in Japan and my sister is in Myanmar for her poly attachment. Well, it's not the first time that I'm staying/travel alone. But, I still find something missing when they are not around...
Hey! I'm really alright! I will get back to normal once my engines are all running fine. You can't wait for me to disturb/tease you har? =)
To all those whom has been very questioning me; I would like to say to all...I really appreciate your concern and I'm really okay!
The cough is pissing the hell outta me as I can't get much sleep either. Furthermore, my busy period has started, so I'm rather occupied with work as well. I am also trying to push myself a little more in order to finish my work before the dateline.
It could also be the lack of family members at home? My Parents are holidaying in Japan and my sister is in Myanmar for her poly attachment. Well, it's not the first time that I'm staying/travel alone. But, I still find something missing when they are not around...
Hey! I'm really alright! I will get back to normal once my engines are all running fine. You can't wait for me to disturb/tease you har? =)
Friday, May 09, 2008
Not feeling well...
My coughing is just gonna get better but the time of the month is here! Now I’m having aches all over & abit of cramp this morning. Please do not let the headaches come too. Argh!~~~
Thursday, May 08, 2008
Crystal Jade with SM & JL
Before I forget about it...on 30th April (supposedly to be not free on this day cos it's my sister's bday)... SM, JL & myself went to have Crystal Jade at Toa Payoh central.
The craziest thingy we did, or rather only JL & me, was to eat 6 sets of Xiao Long Bao (Steamed Pork Dumpling)!~!
The receipt!
Can you imagine 2 girls eating 6 sets of it? Yes, though it's only 5 piece per sets but still having 15 each is so mad! Even the waitress had to re-confirm that we will be ordering another 3 sets and this made all of us laughed, including the people sitting near to us!
Felt so pig after that I had to search for sweets to neutralize the taste. It's really a over dosage of p0rk! Must go do some calculation on the distance I have to run to shed this away.
The craziest thingy we did, or rather only JL & me, was to eat 6 sets of Xiao Long Bao (Steamed Pork Dumpling)!~!
The receipt!
Can you imagine 2 girls eating 6 sets of it? Yes, though it's only 5 piece per sets but still having 15 each is so mad! Even the waitress had to re-confirm that we will be ordering another 3 sets and this made all of us laughed, including the people sitting near to us!
Felt so pig after that I had to search for sweets to neutralize the taste. It's really a over dosage of p0rk! Must go do some calculation on the distance I have to run to shed this away.
Wednesday, May 07, 2008
Happy 2 Months! =P
We went for Pasta de Waraku as both of us suddenly had cravings for Spaghetti! My Carbonara was just nice, but I shouldn't have mixed the egg as it sorta covered up the whole sauce taste. Darling didn't really enjoyed his beef spaghetti? He mentioned it was just soso...
The bad thing was, I am still coughing badly, especially when I feel cold so I wasn't really feeling good when I was out & almost tripped on the bus as my mind was in a blank after medication.
The happy & funny thingy was... Darling had figured out what the item was and had removed it already! The clue was quite simple isn't it? =X
It was rather comical when you tried to tell me about it, and I was still acting blur. I somehow knew it when you took them out and left it on the table, you then took out another pair of it and keep shifting around the table. I just couldn't help it but smile and said, you already knew it right. *MUACKZ*
Anyway, the night ended with us having a tub of Haagen Daaz's Ice cream - Midnight Cookies & Belgian Chocolate! Just like the day we started our r/s having Haagen Daaz's Ice cream before the TGOP's porridge buffet outing. *Ya, I know it's fattening & I was coughing*
Maybe we should just have ice cream once every month, especially on this day. =)
The bad thing was, I am still coughing badly, especially when I feel cold so I wasn't really feeling good when I was out & almost tripped on the bus as my mind was in a blank after medication.
The happy & funny thingy was... Darling had figured out what the item was and had removed it already! The clue was quite simple isn't it? =X
It was rather comical when you tried to tell me about it, and I was still acting blur. I somehow knew it when you took them out and left it on the table, you then took out another pair of it and keep shifting around the table. I just couldn't help it but smile and said, you already knew it right. *MUACKZ*
Anyway, the night ended with us having a tub of Haagen Daaz's Ice cream - Midnight Cookies & Belgian Chocolate! Just like the day we started our r/s having Haagen Daaz's Ice cream before the TGOP's porridge buffet outing. *Ya, I know it's fattening & I was coughing*
Maybe we should just have ice cream once every month, especially on this day. =)
My gd fren - Terence
Met my neighbour at the void deck last night & she told me that her son is getting married on 1st June. Not that it really bothers me even though we are staying next to each other, but the fact is we don’t really talk much. The only thing which I could recall of them doing is to tell my mom that my Sec Form teacher came by, and told them I was playing truant. I got walloped badly...in the toilet...with a shoe...my lips cracked... the bruises...AHH!
This has reminded me of Terence & Jacqueline’s wedding on the very same day and I have not prepared anything!
Well, I do have lotsa clothes already, but I just want to get something different, something nice to wear for their wedding.
I was sms-ing Terence this morning and asked about any themes that he has, and he said Marvel Heroes! It sounded kinda fun, but I can’t think of any character which I can fit/suitable for. Of cos, we all know this isn’t any annual D&D, and obviously he was just joking.
Now, Terence is someone whom I have known during Spectrum days. We were then the coolies of the company, working our ass through night & day.
Because of this, the whole gang of us spent a lot of time together having meals, sharing of cabs, and venting/complaining about work. Not forgetting our holiday trips and visiting of my JB ‘bf’ – Ivan.
Please do not be mistaken...There is a particular shop where I frequently go to since I was 16 and the owners have already been working there up till now! So whenever I go over, automatically, Ivan will help me QC the stuffs for he already know what kinda quality I am looking for. This includes some free ones/special prices since I always bring my friends to this place.
Terence has never failed to help me in the past; he has been my ATM aka ‘loan shark with no interest’ without questioning on why I needed that sum of $$$; he has also taught me the importance of saving up and kept bugging me to save up! And yes, he told me in order to marry Jacqueline; he has started saving up since day 1 of being together.
One thingy which he still owes me till now is to be my tour guide in Hong Kong! Oppz! Did I mention, Jacqueline is from Hong Kong? Both of them met each other through friends and embark on their love relationship since 4 years back. Whoever said long distance relationship doesn't work? Theirs is a perfect example. But I would say, it was their effort & commitment to each other which made their relationship last.
This has reminded me of Terence & Jacqueline’s wedding on the very same day and I have not prepared anything!
Well, I do have lotsa clothes already, but I just want to get something different, something nice to wear for their wedding.
I was sms-ing Terence this morning and asked about any themes that he has, and he said Marvel Heroes! It sounded kinda fun, but I can’t think of any character which I can fit/suitable for. Of cos, we all know this isn’t any annual D&D, and obviously he was just joking.
Now, Terence is someone whom I have known during Spectrum days. We were then the coolies of the company, working our ass through night & day.
Because of this, the whole gang of us spent a lot of time together having meals, sharing of cabs, and venting/complaining about work. Not forgetting our holiday trips and visiting of my JB ‘bf’ – Ivan.
Please do not be mistaken...There is a particular shop where I frequently go to since I was 16 and the owners have already been working there up till now! So whenever I go over, automatically, Ivan will help me QC the stuffs for he already know what kinda quality I am looking for. This includes some free ones/special prices since I always bring my friends to this place.
Terence has never failed to help me in the past; he has been my ATM aka ‘loan shark with no interest’ without questioning on why I needed that sum of $$$; he has also taught me the importance of saving up and kept bugging me to save up! And yes, he told me in order to marry Jacqueline; he has started saving up since day 1 of being together.
One thingy which he still owes me till now is to be my tour guide in Hong Kong! Oppz! Did I mention, Jacqueline is from Hong Kong? Both of them met each other through friends and embark on their love relationship since 4 years back. Whoever said long distance relationship doesn't work? Theirs is a perfect example. But I would say, it was their effort & commitment to each other which made their relationship last.
Tuesday, May 06, 2008
Cyclone in Myanmar
I don't like what I saw on the news today.
Myanmar is hit by massive cyclone and I just managed to call my sis at her hotel!
My mom have called the school yesterday & was being told they are fine. But since we have not gotten any calls from my sis at all; we will be worried.
This suddenly made me feel glad that I'm living in Singapore and that we are not affected by natural disasters.
All I can do now is to pray to GOD, to watch over her till she comes back, provide her food to eat and will be brave to face this challenge. Amen.
Myanmar is hit by massive cyclone and I just managed to call my sis at her hotel!
My mom have called the school yesterday & was being told they are fine. But since we have not gotten any calls from my sis at all; we will be worried.
This suddenly made me feel glad that I'm living in Singapore and that we are not affected by natural disasters.
All I can do now is to pray to GOD, to watch over her till she comes back, provide her food to eat and will be brave to face this challenge. Amen.
Sick...
Not very good!! I coughed the night away & couldn't get any sleep at all! Argh!
Believe that is why I had seemed to be cranky yesterday and it probably will get worst today!
Thank you to my dear dajie & xiaomei for your concern, I really appreciate it, but not to worries, I'm not on emo mode. I just didn't get enough sleep, and nothing happened. If I were to be angry, I should be angry at those whom passed the germs to me right? (It was funny when the both of you message the same thingy to me, I had to paste the same reply back to the both of you!)
It's funny too, especially when I made a comment on the 'person I hate - YSL'!
My advisor - MM & Coach Lover - SM immediately turn to fan at me and told me not to be angry! The two of them probably thought I would have gotten high blood pressure when I was saying that liner on YSL. But I really wasn't angry at that point of time! Haha!
Anyway, I couldn't really be bothered with YSL anymore cos 'she is like that'. Hopefully she don't try anything funny again; I wouldn't be nice.
The other thingy...which I couldn't figure out was why a supposedly-twin-plusmanyyears would love to go against me so much....for every word being said, for every action done. This really get on my nerves cos I really treat him as a friend!
The few possible reasons would lead back to the doubt which Darling has. The other would be, he don't quite like my Darling.
If that is true, he ought to control his emotions/feelings! If its the later, I could have understand why! Given for anybody, if you don't really like the other person, you probably wouldn't want/like your friends, your love ones to be any closer or involve in anything related to that person! E.g. Like KPH's case, I know she wouldn't be very happy about it if haRMonica kept talking to me either. No worries on this, I'll always side my family =)
But it is unfair for you to be nasty to me! I hope you can treat the whole situation in a more tactful manner. I also hope you can rid the defensive self of yours. Nobody is against you but you made it so that everybody is against you so you had to be against all? It's really dumb.
Last but not least, I don't wish to lose a friend.
Believe that is why I had seemed to be cranky yesterday and it probably will get worst today!
Thank you to my dear dajie & xiaomei for your concern, I really appreciate it, but not to worries, I'm not on emo mode. I just didn't get enough sleep, and nothing happened. If I were to be angry, I should be angry at those whom passed the germs to me right? (It was funny when the both of you message the same thingy to me, I had to paste the same reply back to the both of you!)
It's funny too, especially when I made a comment on the 'person I hate - YSL'!
My advisor - MM & Coach Lover - SM immediately turn to fan at me and told me not to be angry! The two of them probably thought I would have gotten high blood pressure when I was saying that liner on YSL. But I really wasn't angry at that point of time! Haha!
Anyway, I couldn't really be bothered with YSL anymore cos 'she is like that'. Hopefully she don't try anything funny again; I wouldn't be nice.
The other thingy...which I couldn't figure out was why a supposedly-twin-plusmanyyears would love to go against me so much....for every word being said, for every action done. This really get on my nerves cos I really treat him as a friend!
The few possible reasons would lead back to the doubt which Darling has. The other would be, he don't quite like my Darling.
If that is true, he ought to control his emotions/feelings! If its the later, I could have understand why! Given for anybody, if you don't really like the other person, you probably wouldn't want/like your friends, your love ones to be any closer or involve in anything related to that person! E.g. Like KPH's case, I know she wouldn't be very happy about it if haRMonica kept talking to me either. No worries on this, I'll always side my family =)
But it is unfair for you to be nasty to me! I hope you can treat the whole situation in a more tactful manner. I also hope you can rid the defensive self of yours. Nobody is against you but you made it so that everybody is against you so you had to be against all? It's really dumb.
Last but not least, I don't wish to lose a friend.
Saturday, May 03, 2008
Right or Wrong? Should do or not do!
We were able to discuss on the above sentence again in the early morning. Though we all know, we will appear like those from 'House of the Dead' game & that we will be zombiefied eaters today but the news was just too shocking for some.
Personally, I feel that it does not matter if it right or wrong but I see it as a should do or not do case! It is by choice, your own choice. That says so much about yourself!
To be frank, I have yet to find out on, why me, being like a hobbit lookalike would have/get to know a lot of morons. Even up till yday, I still get quite a number of offers if I want a fling with them. Be it people I have know for many years or some could be just total strangers I met on the streets! NO!!! What has this world become to???
Remembering one C.E. saying the following, another C.E. just had to remind us once again!
"Thou shall not do to others if you do not wan that to befall onto u..."
This also explains why I couldn't fully agree when you asked if we could still be friends if we ever broke up. Cos I know that, given the same scenario like KPH's, I would never be able to accept the fact/able to handle my feelings of not having the rights to be upset. (This won't apply if it's related to cheating)
This puts your reputation as stake too. Yes, I rather have the 'arrogant, fierce & anti-social' first impression engraved in everybody's head, than the 'she is just like that ' saying from all!
Seriously, from younger days till now, 90% of friends whom know me, had this impression. But I don't really care, cos I know, once all of you have know me well, will eventually realized that I'm not like this! :P
Many this or that was mentioned in this very posting.
On the bottom line, it's your decision that determines whom you really are.
Personally, I feel that it does not matter if it right or wrong but I see it as a should do or not do case! It is by choice, your own choice. That says so much about yourself!
To be frank, I have yet to find out on, why me, being like a hobbit lookalike would have/get to know a lot of morons. Even up till yday, I still get quite a number of offers if I want a fling with them. Be it people I have know for many years or some could be just total strangers I met on the streets! NO!!! What has this world become to???
Remembering one C.E. saying the following, another C.E. just had to remind us once again!
"Thou shall not do to others if you do not wan that to befall onto u..."
This also explains why I couldn't fully agree when you asked if we could still be friends if we ever broke up. Cos I know that, given the same scenario like KPH's, I would never be able to accept the fact/able to handle my feelings of not having the rights to be upset. (This won't apply if it's related to cheating)
This puts your reputation as stake too. Yes, I rather have the 'arrogant, fierce & anti-social' first impression engraved in everybody's head, than the 'she is just like that ' saying from all!
Seriously, from younger days till now, 90% of friends whom know me, had this impression. But I don't really care, cos I know, once all of you have know me well, will eventually realized that I'm not like this! :P
Many this or that was mentioned in this very posting.
On the bottom line, it's your decision that determines whom you really are.
Friday, May 02, 2008
Cheating...
What’s your say? On cheating? As for mine, I had already expressed my views on this topic several times on my blog. (Go search if you haven’t read it :P)
Paper cannot wrap fire. A guy whom some of us know, happens to be two-timing on his supposedly very-in-love foreign gf.
So will you tell a acquaintance that you actually know about it and give advise? Or choose to be quiet? As for the few of us whom saw/spotted him, we chose to be quiet since he wasn’t really close to us either.
But to my girl friends, please be warned of this fellow. :)
Paper cannot wrap fire. A guy whom some of us know, happens to be two-timing on his supposedly very-in-love foreign gf.
So will you tell a acquaintance that you actually know about it and give advise? Or choose to be quiet? As for the few of us whom saw/spotted him, we chose to be quiet since he wasn’t really close to us either.
But to my girl friends, please be warned of this fellow. :)
Thursday, May 01, 2008
Patience is the key
A night of sadness/anger for many, a night of chaos for those sitting by the roadside, a night of love...
I probably had a little too long a nap awhile ago; I decided to read some stuffs; your writings, right from the start...but after reading a few posts...I wanted to write myself too.
I know I was gonna tell you sometime later this week, to put aside/throw this one item of hers, when I pass you something which I had gotten for you during my recent trip. (I didn't buy it for the sake of giving you something, but becos it's cute! =P)
Yes, I still remembered, the day we announced our relationship to the rest...on the bus...when you took out your own set of that items & was figuring who the owner and later recalled it was her.
This has made me cringed a little, even after few weeks, when you took them out; I admit...I stared to see if hers were still there. For I know, the both of you have broken up long time back, it just made me wondered why you are still keeping it.
Only 1 had seen me struggled over whether I should be telling you about this or not. And even gave ideas on how I should go about doing it. Not only do I have to decide on which crappy methods I should use, I had to deal with the one A.S. woman, whom indirectly because of her supposedly wrongdoings...has brought us together.
Yes, these had formed my frustrations over the past few days, which I would have never wrote/tell/mention on it.
But now, I tell myself, patience is the key...it’s silly & ridiculous having thoughts on why you had keep that item, thoughts on what that A.S. woman is trying to do... for I know I already have you.
And like what I have said, you already stood a position in my heart. That explains why the night before, when you told me those words which I really really hate hearing it from you, I still cried. Now, reading the whole sentence again, I realized I probably missed out on the real meaning of those words.
Despite the flashbacks on my past while we walk on the streets of boat quay, despite us spending lotsa time helping others with their ‘misfortune’...
You just make me feel like loving you more, cherish every little time we have for each other and I do wanna see that our relationship will go to the very end.
I Love You.
Also...
Thank GOD, for your patience on me, for telling me to suppress my anger and not to be bothered over such silly things & for bringing KC to me.
P.S.: I still don't like those words/that sentence...okie? So, please don’t say it! I also remembered you told me that, 'Men don't take hints, so please say out the next time'. But for your sake, I decided to not say out what is that one item in this post. The only clue would be that item/word was being mentioned twice =X
I probably had a little too long a nap awhile ago; I decided to read some stuffs; your writings, right from the start...but after reading a few posts...I wanted to write myself too.
I know I was gonna tell you sometime later this week, to put aside/throw this one item of hers, when I pass you something which I had gotten for you during my recent trip. (I didn't buy it for the sake of giving you something, but becos it's cute! =P)
Yes, I still remembered, the day we announced our relationship to the rest...on the bus...when you took out your own set of that items & was figuring who the owner and later recalled it was her.
This has made me cringed a little, even after few weeks, when you took them out; I admit...I stared to see if hers were still there. For I know, the both of you have broken up long time back, it just made me wondered why you are still keeping it.
Only 1 had seen me struggled over whether I should be telling you about this or not. And even gave ideas on how I should go about doing it. Not only do I have to decide on which crappy methods I should use, I had to deal with the one A.S. woman, whom indirectly because of her supposedly wrongdoings...has brought us together.
Yes, these had formed my frustrations over the past few days, which I would have never wrote/tell/mention on it.
But now, I tell myself, patience is the key...it’s silly & ridiculous having thoughts on why you had keep that item, thoughts on what that A.S. woman is trying to do... for I know I already have you.
And like what I have said, you already stood a position in my heart. That explains why the night before, when you told me those words which I really really hate hearing it from you, I still cried. Now, reading the whole sentence again, I realized I probably missed out on the real meaning of those words.
Despite the flashbacks on my past while we walk on the streets of boat quay, despite us spending lotsa time helping others with their ‘misfortune’...
You just make me feel like loving you more, cherish every little time we have for each other and I do wanna see that our relationship will go to the very end.
I Love You.
Also...
Thank GOD, for your patience on me, for telling me to suppress my anger and not to be bothered over such silly things & for bringing KC to me.
P.S.: I still don't like those words/that sentence...okie? So, please don’t say it! I also remembered you told me that, 'Men don't take hints, so please say out the next time'. But for your sake, I decided to not say out what is that one item in this post. The only clue would be that item/word was being mentioned twice =X
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