Men - Pornography & Womanizing

I just finished lunch with my female colleagues…and yeah all of them are married & two are pregnant now.

Our lunch talk today was about Men - Pornography & Womanizing. They talked about men watching pornography & on men seeking women on the net for sex.

As for pornography, I guess this is only natural for them to watch it, but to ogle over it...hmm... It all depends on how you look at it…in a way, the couple could learn/spice things up outta it? Anyway, I do have a supply of it from friends (they just send me, I did not ask for it), but I’ve got minimal time to watch it these days. Hah!

As for seeking woman on the net for sex...this kept me wondering why one would want to do so. Outta curiosity? Outta loneliness? Cheap thrill? I seriously have no idea...

This brought us to another topic on womanizing. To reiterate, I have zero tolerance on this and if my man did sleep with another/did something unfaithful to me, I will not allow any chance or forgive him at all, it’s a clean break or a divorce (that is after marriage of cos). But my colleagues said that I was wrong as I do not have any kids now. And women change especially when they have kids; it’s a different story!

But to me, with or without kids, I will still stand on what I said. Perhaps it’s just me…whom grew up quite independently & for what I have gone through, I will survive; I believe that there is simply no reason for one to go astray, even if there is some problems between the couple, the both should try to solve the problem before anything else could happen. Nevertheless, it will still be definite a ‘shift + del’.